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Question for Clients, Friends, Bloglodytes, Etc.

November 16, 2009

 

Question for Clients, Friends, Bloglodytes (Blogolinis?) and Everybody
  
Hi, Y’All ~
 
This question really applies to the nice folk in the Greater Cleveland area, but I’d be interested in feedback from all around. 
 
Some of you may be aware (because of the ruthless marketing demon who inhabits my keyboard) that I have written a couple of versions of a piece called “Alex, the Christmas Imp.”  It began as a children’s story, and has evolved into a fantasy for folks of… several ages. 
 
Anyway,  I’m thinking of doing a public reading of the children’s version, followed by a couple of sections from the… other version, so I can get some feedback via moment by moment audience response.  Or lack thereof. 
 
I would be doing the reading as a (relatively low-priced) fund raiser for a couple wee not-for-profit organizations; one of them might be a small church.  It would probably occur the week of December 7, before we’re all in final holiday frenzy.  It might be in Lakewood.
 
It would likely be in two segments of about 35 minutes each with a short intermission.  There might be some option to purchase refreshments. 
 
So, the questions are:
 
1. Do you think you might join me for such a thingy?
2. If you have kidlets of whatever age, would you bring them along (possibly at a reduced fee)?
 
[By the way, a THIRD version of the piece is available as a radio play on archived streaming audio at WKSU.  The link is  http://www.wksu.org/alexandra/  .]
 
So please let me know what you think.
 
Thanks so much!
 
Blessings,
 
Neal
 
P.S.  I apologize if you have received (many) more than one copy of this.  Darn that marketing demon!
 
 

Tarot Card for the Day ~ December 16

December 16, 2008

Seven of Swords

 

The Sword in the Stone

 

We all remember the story of the Sword in the stone, right?  Well, sort of.  What’s important for our understanding of the Seven of Swords is to know that the Arthurian legends contain two sword-in-stone stories.

 

This one takes place long after Arthur has become king, and involves the introduction of Galahad to the court of Camelot.  It’s been told with lots of variations.

 

The essence of the story as I see it: The Camelottish folk were all gathered for the Christian feast of Pentecost (or Whitsun ~ the 49th/50th day after Easter) when they saw a huge red marble boulder come floating serenely down the river and up to the Camelot dock, as it were.  Gleaming and protruding from it was a beautiful, ornate sword.

 

In some versions of our tale the rock is engraved with words like, “This sword shall only be pulled out by the best of all knights.”  Pretty much every knight lined up to have a whack at it, jostling, grunting, bragging, swearing, whooping ~ about what you’d expect.

 

After they’d all had a go and failed, a new and unknown fellow quietly walked up to the stone.  Without a word or a glance in any direction he took hold of the sword and pulled it from the stone like light piercing shallow water, walked back up to the castle and took a seat at the Round Table.

    

Which brings us to the interpretation of the Seven of Swords.  Traditional readings of this card are pretty down, with words like “dishonor,” “futility,” and “lone wolf” tossed about.

 

I see exactly the opposite in this card, especially as it is portrayed in the Legend deck.

 

When I work with a client and we turn this one up (and it’s amazing how often it shows up in the career section of a reading), I say, “Own your power.  Own. Your.  Power.  Without ego but also without apology.  To anyone.  Be yourself.  Be who you really are.”

 

The Seven of Swords indicates that it’s truly time for you to own your skills, abilities, gifts, potentials, intentions ~ your POWER ~ and let yourself begin to move in a new direction with new purpose.

 

As we move into the holiday season that is sacred to so many in our Western culture, it is good to remember that we honor our Creator and our planet by becoming more and more truly who we are for the highest and best of all.

 

Own your power.  No ego.  No apology.

 

Bright Blessings!

 

 

Oh bugger! I’ve misspelled Tarot!

November 4, 2008

Sigh.

White Magic!

October 24, 2008

White Magic

 

(It’s Called Blessing!)

 

My October 13 post, “Daily Doses of Dark Magic” pulled a number of email comments from clients and friends.  Thanks for letting me know the message was helpful!

 

I planned to do a follow-up post with ways to incorporate “white magic” more and more into our lives and our world.  I probably will on down the road.   

 

But my friend Peg in Rocky River has taken the pressure off by forwarding a wonderful and helpful post. It covers much of what I might have tried to say about the subject in a truly beautiful, poetic and inspiring way.  

 

It’s from the book The Gentle Art of Blessing – Living One’s Spirituality in Everyday Life by Pierre Pradervand.  I must have been under a rock to have missed this before. M. Pradervand (who is French) has very graciously given me permission to post this on the shamanspath blog.

 

So please take a moment to enjoy a warm, healing blessing for yourself (even if you already know this teaching).

 

Brightest blessings!

 

 

 

The Gentle Art of Blessing


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On awakening, bless this day, for it is already full of unseen good which your blessings will call forth; for to bless is to acknowledge the unlimited good that is embedded in the very texture of the universe and awaiting each and all.

 

On passing people in the street, on the bus, in places of work and play, bless them. The peace of your blessing will accompany them on their way and the aura of its gentle fragrance will be a light to their path. On meeting and talking to people, bless them in their health, their work, their joy, their relationships to God, themselves, and others.

 

Bless them in their abundance, their finances…bless them in every conceivable way, for such blessings not only sow seeds of healing but one day will spring forth as flowers of joy in the waste places of your own life.

 

As you walk, bless the city in which you live, its government and teachers, its nurses and streetsweepers, its children and bankers, its priests and prostitutes.

 

The minute anyone expresses the least aggression or unkindness to you, respond with a blessing: bless them totally, sincerely, joyfully, for such blessings are a shield which protects them from the ignorance of their misdeed, and deflects the arrow that was aimed at you.

 

To bless means to wish, unconditionally, total, unrestricted good for others and events from the deepest wellspring in the innermost chamber of your heart: it means to hallow, to hold in reverence, to behold with utter awe that which is always a gift from the Creator.

 

He who is hallowed by your blessing is set aside, consecrated, holy, whole. To bless is yet to invoke divine care upon, to think or speak gratefully for, to confer happiness upon – although we ourselves are never the bestower, but simply the joyfull witnesses of Life’s abundance.

 

To bless all without discrimination of any sort is the ultimate form of giving, because those you bless will never know from whence came the sudden ray of sun that burst through the clouds of their skies, and you will rarely be a witness to the sunlight in their lives.

 

When something goes completely askew in your day, some unexpected event knocks down your plans and you too also, burst into blessing: for life is teaching you a lesson, and the very event you believe to be unwanted, you yourself called forth, so as to learn the lesson you might balk against were you not to bless it. Trials are blessings in disguise, and hosts of angels follow in their path.

 

To bless is to acknowledge the omnipresent, universal beauty hidden to material eyes; it is to activate that law of attraction which, from the furthest reaches of the universe, will bring into your life exactly what you need to experience and enjoy.

 

When you pass a prison, mentally bless its inmates in their innocence and freedom, their gentleness, pure essence and unconditional forgiveness; for one can only be prisoner of one’s self-image, and a free man can walk unshackled in the courtyard of a jail, just as citizens of countries where freedom reigns can be prisoners when fear lurks in their thoughts.

 

When you pass a hospital, bless its patients in their present wholeness, for even in their suffering, this wholeness awaits in them to be discovered.

 

When your eyes behold a man in tears, or seemingly broken by life, bless him in his vitality and joy: for the material senses present but the inverted image of the ultimate splendor and perfection which only the inner eye beholds.

 

It is impossible to bless and to judge at the same time. So hold constantly as a deep, hallowed, intoned thought that desire to bless, for truly then shall you become a peacemaker, and one day you shall, everywhere, behold the very face of God.

 

And of course, don’t forget to bless the utterly beautiful person YOU are!

 

From the book by Pierre Pradervand: The Gentle Art of Blessing – Living One’s Spirituality in Everyday Life.  Used by the kind permission of M. Pradervand.

 

The book may be ordered through book stores and many sources online.

 

A movie version may be seen at:

http://www.joy-tothe-world.com/Gentle_Art_of_Blessing_Movi.html

 

You are invited to look up the website about the author’s workshops, which take place at 7000 feet in the Swiss Alps (website in French), at: www.life.int.ch  or e-mail: prader@iprolink.ch

 

Slimed By a Psychic Reader?

October 6, 2008

 

 

 

As anybody who has worked with me for a while probably knows, I consider Belleruth Naparstek’s guided imagery CDs to be the gold standard for what they offer and how well they offer it.

The correspondence below involves someone who was trashed by a psychic reader.  Belleruth’s reply is about the best I’ve heard for responding to those kinds of situations.  And her wisdom ALSO applies to similar situations (family, work, etc.) where you’re dealing with a “bullying sadist.”  Hope this is helpful!

Brightest blessings!

 Woman Gets Slimed By Punk Psychic Reader

This question came not long ago:
Hi, I had a psychic reading that made me miserable. Won’t go into details, but I am still hurt one month after the reading. Worst of all, the psychic has a popular reputation, and everyone seems to tell me how accurate he is.

In my situation though, I wanted to ask about my career because I was unemployed at that time. Yet, he chose to spoke about my love life and told me I had no luck in love in New Zealand.  But the worst thing was he recommended I return to my home country (I am Asian)…and what he did not know was I am much more unlucky in love there, because over there, people my age (29!) are considered over the hill and “old maids”. However, he made plenty more assumptions about my culture that was not true, as well, and used them as basis for my going back.

 

Shortly after the reading (and many tears) I miraculously found a job that I liked. But it’s too late. Since that reading, I’ve been so miserable. While my original worry about my career is lessening…. now, he’s directed my fear to my pathetic romantic life, and confusion whether to stay or go. Because if what he says about my shitty love life is true, then why fullfil my hope of a successful career in New Zealand and end up a spinster? I have been more confused, upset, and not to mention offended by his reading.

He kept telling me I was stupid, and made lots of derogatory remarks about my astrological make-up. While I do appreciate honesty and bluntness in psychics, I really felt he overstepped the mark this time, not allowing me to ask my question, and then talking about something else I was not interested to know about. I mean, sure, I’d like to find love, but that was not my main purpose of seeing him. I suspect he was a little racist, or somewhat ignorant about my cultural background as well.

I felt inspired to send him a letter that I wrote telling him exactly how I felt. I do not need compensation, but I felt he needed to know….I have written the letter, to let out my emotions, but still feel no peace, until I have sent it. Do you think it’s a good idea to send it to him, under an anonymous name?

Are there any guided imagery programs you recommend to clear this from my system, because it is making me VERY depressed, but the last thing I want to do is see another psychic. I wish I hadn’t seen him, so that I could enjoy my job and be blissfully ignorant that the trade off for this is the lack of a love life. I don’t believe my love life should only be limited to one country, but according to him, it really is.
                        
                                                                                                                  Lila
Dear Lila,

Yikes!   You’re giving way too much power to this jerk, to allow him to wreck your ideas and hopes about your own future.  C’mon, girl!!  Snap out of it!!  This guy is bogus – I don’t care what you were told about his reputation!!
First of all, as any reputable psychic will tell you, no reader is right 100% of the time, and in fact, all they can read psychically is your probable future at that moment. You can step out of that chair and change your future to a parallel probability in the next minute.  So that’s first of all. Nothing is written in stone.  
Second of all, any psychic who is this insulting, disempowering and abusive, not to mention racist, is no psychic (or person) worth your time or money.  The first rule of ESP etiquette is to say nothing that takes away options and choice, or that frightens or discourages a person.  So, typically, if a responsible psychic were to, let’s say, see a probable future of someone having an automobile accident, he or she might give the information as a warning against being overly lead-footed on the accelerator, or about staying attentive and not getting distracted while driving – but never to say “You’re going to get into an accident”.  By framing the information in a responsible way, the psychic allows the client to change the probable direction that things are heading toward in a more choiceful and safe way. And the good ones all know how to do that.

Third of all, no psychic worth his chops would tell you what to do.  They aren’t supposed to do that – not their job.  Nor would they say that your romantic options are limited by geography. If your energy and circumstances and readiness for a relationship are getting activated, it will happen in Australia, Asia or Antarctica!

This guy is either a bullying sadist, or a jerk having a bad day, and taking it out on you – and charging you for it, to boot!…Or who knows?  Maybe he’s got some nefarious agenda to drive all the Asians out of New Zealand by giving bogus psychic readings!!  Whatever is motivating this punk, one thing’s for sure: he’s got no business giving readings.

My general suggestion to you would be to stop giving away your power to other people, letting random “experts” determine your mood, your future, your worth.  Enjoy your new job.  Stay in New Zealand if that’s where things are breaking for you.  Remember that love can find you anywhere, especially if you keep your heart open, and your mind sharp and clear for discriminating between the toads and the princes.

Send the letter if it will make you feel better. Sign it and own it, by all means.  Feel free to send my reply to you as well, if you want some ballast. Or don’t send it.  It doesn’t matter, because what he thinks doesn’t matter – it’s only worth doing if it helps you in some way.  Or take a ritual bath, whereby you cleanse yourself of the toxic gunk he left you with.  Or smudge him out of your field.  But no matter what you do, I hope you stop letting him limit your options. Stick with people who value you and help you stay true to your own opinions. 

Perhaps our Self-Confidence imagery would help. Also, David Illig’s Self-Esteem CD is terrific imagery for this issue.

Good luck to you and thanks so much for the question, because it speaks to a lot of misunderstandings people have about psychic readings.  I wonder how many others have had similar experiences, or ponder these issues about what psychics can or cannot do, or wonder about the parallel probabilities for the future… 
All best,
Belleruth
 

(You can read more about Belleruth and learn about her wonderful work at http://belleruthnaparstek.com )

 

                                               

Card for the Day ~ October 5

October 4, 2008

 

Five of Swords

Gawain’s Penance

 

(My interpretation of this card in readings is different than that of most readers I know.)

 

STOP living life as though it were a penance.  And stop flogging yourself with penance you think you should do, however “justified” that belief may be according to the tenets of ordinary reality and its proctors ~ including those very close to you.

 

Reach out for joy, for beauty, for healing, for the highest and best of your potential.  Constantly rubbing your own nose in the messes of the past will never bring about positive change.  It will only keep you from moving upward, and may even cause you to repeat errors and disappointments of the past.

 

Live!  Seek all that is uplifting, and wonderful, and full of Light!

 

Bright blessings!



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